ZINDAGI KA DARD

                    DARD ,PAIN TAKLEEF 

     

Dard pain takleef dekhna me kitna chota word hai usse jada chota bolna me par inka matlab utna he bada. 

kuch logo ko to inka matlab sahi se bhi nhi pata hota ya chota word logo ki jindagi me utne he badi bhumika libhata hai.

dard pain takleef ka matlab yaha par body pain ya sharir ka dard se nhi hai balki jindagi me aana wala bada bada dard pain se hai jiska aaga log apna ghutna teek deta hai. 

or jindagi ka khel me har jata hai aaj hum kuch asa dard se hi wakif hoga jo normal hum sab ki jindagi me aata rehta hai bhoot se log to un dard ko apni jindagi me kabhi nhi bhool pata or puri life yahi sochta hai kash ya na kiya hota ya wo na kiya hota to aaj ya din nhi aata meri me.

pain jindagi me aana bhi jaruri hai tabhi log apna or durso me fark karna sekhta hai or har pain ka saath life me lesson milta hai

aao jana kuch jaruri dard life me jo life ko pura badal deti hai.

  1.   Relationship ka pain  

     

relationship ka dard hum sab ki life me ek na ek bar jarur aata hai kyuki hum apni puri life me ek bar pyar jarur karta hai.

par jaruri nhi hota hum sabhi ko humara pyar mila kyuki jada tar relationship adhura reh jata hai kyuki humara yaha cast ko bhoot value deta hai jiska dar se humara relationship adhura reh jata hai. 

kabhi family ki wajha se to kabhi kise or reason se agar koi apni family ya cast ka against jaa kar shadi kar le to family se hath dho deta hai. 

or kabhi kabhi kise ka aana se hume lagta hai jasa humari jindagi ki sari khushi mil gai ho or hum apna future dekhna lagta hai us ensaan ka saath har khushi soch leta hai.

  par hum hamesha sahi nhi hota kyuki jab wo ensaan hume chood jata hai to humara sabhi sapna toot jata hai or hum bhoot dukhi ho jata hai or es dhoka ko bardash nhi kar pata kuch log esme har jata hai or apni life khatam kar leta hai.

or kuch log himmat dekhta kar us sab ko bhool kar apni life me aaga badh jata hai or life khatam karna ek galti hai kyuki hum us pyar ka liya apni life khatam kar leta hai jo hamari jindagi me bas 4din pehla aaya tha par humara bachpan ka pyar hamara parents family bhai bhen sab yahi chood jata hai rota hua aaga badh na bhoot samajhdari ka kaam karta hai 

par es sab se hame bhoot sikh milte hai jo harami life mein bhoot kaam aati hai par es sab ka asar hamari life me reh jata hai jisa hum kabhi nhi bhool pata.

2.     Trust ya believe ka tutna     

     trust ya believe bhoot asan word hai hum bhot asani se logo ko bol to deta hai ki hum par trust par believe karo par eska matlab hum bhool jata hai ki ja word sirf bolna me asan hai par eska matlab bhot bada hai jisko hum define nhi kar pata.

par kabhi na kabhi humara trust kise na kise na toda hoga jiski wajha se hume bhoot pain hua hoga.  

Duniya me bhoot se log asa bhi hota jo bhot jaldi kise par bhi believe ya trust kar leta hai jo huma hamari jingadi me bhot  bar bhot bhari pad jata hai par usa huma bhot se sabak milta hai jo hamari es aadat ko change kar deta hai.

life me kabhi bhi itne jaldi trust nhi karna chahiya kyuki humari life me kitne log fake hota hai or kitna trust karna wala hum unme fark nhi kar pata isliya apni life me bhoot sambhal kar trust karna kyuki hum nhi janta kon hume kha dhoka de dega

life fake people se bhari hue hoti hai to trust karna humari galti ban sakti hai

     isliya trust bhoot soch samajh kar kara.     

Trust or believe karna hai to apna uper karo kyuki sirf aap khud ho jo apni garanti aap le sakta ho agar aap ko apna uper believe hai to koi bhi aap ko dhoka nhi de sakta kyuki aap ko apni jarurat or value pata hai. 

agar aap ko apna aap par believe hai to aap apni jindagi me sara sapna pura kar sakta apna aap par or apni mehnat par barosha hona chahiya.

kyuki aap ka saath sab chood jaega ek din jab aap ka pass kuch nhi hoga tab aap ko barosha ki bhoot jarurat padegi bas apna aap par trust rekhna.

kyuki kise or par believe karna harami galti bane jo kaam kyu karna karo trust par soch samajh kar

kyuki jab ya sab koi tood deta hai to rona ka alawa kuch nhi reh jata life me kyuki ya pain life me bhot dukh deta hai trust wo kacha dhaga hai jisme ek war bhi hua to wo toot jaega fir bhoot muskil ka judna me aata hai.

isliya apna aap par trust karo.

3.       Dreams ka tutna ya sapna ka bikhar jana

dream kitna pyara word hai par ussa pyar hai wo time jab wo pura hota hai kyuki sapna har koi dekhta hai kuch na kuch bana ka kuch karna ka apna naam roshan karna ka ki log ussa usks naam kaam se jana or bhoot acchi baat hai sapna dekhna or pura karna.

        dream ta sapna hamari life ka mirror kyuki ya he humari khushiyo ka fasla karta hai par kya hoga agar kise ka sapna pura nhi hua to.

wo dard bhoot muskil hota hai life me bardas karna i wish aap logo ki jindagi me wo time na aaya. 

par har log lucky nhi hota bhoot se log hota hai jinha apna sapna pura nhi hota jinha apna sapna ka sath sacrifice karna padta hai bhot log hota hai es duniya me jinka sapna kabhi family kabhi financial problem ki wajha se pura nhi hota .

par bhot se log lucky hota hai jo apna sapna pura kar leta hai or apna naam bana leta hai apni family sport karti hai or wo apna life me bhoot khush hota hai kyuki unha koi dukh nhi hota.   

jinka sapna pura nhi ho pata wo log puri life bas esi ko sochta rehta hai ki kash ahsa nhi hota ya wo nhi hota us dard ka asar hamari puri life me ek agal asar chood jata hai or wo log puri jindagi rota rehta hai.wo sirf sochta rehta hai ki hum na asa kya kar diya jiska fal mujha mila kyuki unhona life me bhoot mehnat ki hoti hai par sapna pura nhi kar pata.

par apni life me kabhi har nhi manni chahiya kyuki aaj nhi to kal life me khushiya aaygi or sapne pura hoga bas apna aap ki mehnat par or khud par bharosha rakhna sekna hoga.